To pay or not to pay
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Is it worth paying for communicating with girls or should it be free? No, I'm not talking about prostitution. What I mean is just communication. Now, along with free dating sites, there have appeared many of those that charge money for correspondence with girls. The question arises: so why pay, once it is possible not to pay. And whether it is necessary to pay money for real feelings. I have answered this question for myself unequivocally: to pay always and everywhere where there is a possibility! The only free cheese is in the mousetrap!
Just think: in earlier times, before the Internet era, people got to know each other just in the street, at the theater, at exhibitions, subways, at the institute, at school, or at work. Young people used to "ingratiate themselves" with a girl trying to somehow attract her attention: with sense of humor, gallant attitude, or a gift. Now acquaintance in real life has faded into the background: people have forgotten how to do it, they are too lazy. The Internet, on the one hand, has made it easier for us to search for our other half, and on the other, it has made things more complicated. Before coming to a girl in a bus, a boy had time to look at her from every side, to find out what she was reading, what she smelled like and even how neatly she was dressed. Now we are forced to evaluate the appearance of a girl only by the pictures that she has posted in her profile. At best, they would be well photo-shopped pictures, at worst - a photo of an unknown model. The interests of the girl also have to be judged by what she has written about herself, which is not always true.
When meeting a girl from a dating site, you should always be prepared that reality may differ from expectations. To say nothing of the cases when it is just pimply teenagers who are writing on behalf of a girl for lack of anything better to do. Therefore, getting acquainted through the Internet, I prefer to spend time, energy and heart emotions to communicate with real girls pretty to look at. Since I myself am not able to verify the reality of a girl, I have to pay the one who can do it - the site owner. I think this money pays off. I can, without leaving home, choose for myself exactly that “ginger-red” lady 5.4 to 5.5 feet tall, with size D boobs, I have long been dreaming of. I have never met one in the subway.
I have been wondering how the organizers can check the girls, so I have asked the question. It turns out that in order to register on the site, a girl must provide her passport; and all the data and photos posted on the site must correspond to the passport data. In addition, data on marriage and children are also checked.
Of course, if the organizers could guarantee me that the girl knows how to cook “borsch” and dumplings, or speaks at least 3 foreign languages, it would be a nice benefit, but I can make it with just a passport check!
Thus, by paying on dating sites, I do not buy love, but simply make the process of choosing a girl easier and more enjoyable. But whether to spend money on gifts for girls, through dating sites is something to decide for everyone himself! As for me, I believe the man was created exactly to make the girls feel nice. And to give her a bouquet of flowers and a flight fee to visit me - what could be nicer.
