My personal criteria of searching girls for online dating
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I am already an experienced user of so-called dating sites. I began to meet girls through the Internet about 10 years ago, It seems hard to believe now I used to come up to a girl I liked in the street. I am 35 years old. I work in the IT field. No wife or children, naturally. I spend most of my time at the computer, but on weekends, I would like to go out with a partner to a cafe, cinema or even theater.
With the help of the Internet, I have already met, probably, with something about three dozen girls. We have remained friends with some of them, lovers with others, and have just stopped communicating with a part of them. I have realized that choosing a woman to suit you is highly likely possible already at the stage of analyzing her profile. For myself, I have set the following rules:
- discard thoughts like "This girl is too beautiful for me." It is the most beautiful girls who remain, as a rule, alone, because everyone is afraid to approach them;
- modern young girls are often no less interesting than women over 35. You cannot rely on age here, you should read what a girl writes about her interests;
- distance is no problem. I have realized that girls from my city and even from my country do not suit me, as they are often more like men, and not in terms of appearance, but in terms of independence, security and non-fulfillment of female functions. Girls from Russia or Ukraine remain girls in the traditional sense of the word;
- do not be afraid of the phrase "looking for a serious relationship." All girls will write it, because they do not want to be regarded as promiscuous, but none will force you to put a ring on your finger, either. A girl thinks like this: “we will communicate, meet, who knows, perhaps something will come out, in any case we will have fun”.
Regarding Internet sites, the one thing I know for certain now is that no free aggregates can grant me that I am communicating with a real girl. There was a case that the girl I met live, had posted on the site just a picture of a pretty girlfriend. To say it was a disappointment is to say nothing!
Paysites, although they do take fees, but they guarantee that the girls are real, and I can make a complaint if anything. The main thing is not to overdo it with the "fees". For example, I found for myself that viewing profiles has to be free!
Now, the use of a paid resource, by the very fact of paying provides me with less competition, because there are hundreds of guys sitting on free websites writing to girls just for kick, but here not everyone is ready to fork out, and the girl understands that the man who is writing is able to earn a living.
At the moment, I am communicating with a girl from Russia. We have agreed with her to spend the first summer days together in Spain. I am looking forward to taking a walk along the seashore with a slim blonde beside me…
